simple mindedhad chanced upon a blog of a young girl who jus graduated from poly..
read thru her blog n realised that this little girl is very simple minded..
ok.. wat is simple minded??
enlighten me if i'm wrong in any way but this blog is jus a expression of my feelings..
simple minded to me don mean stupid..but think some young kids nowadays r really very pampered and protected..so when they come to a point where they need to go out in the working world to look for a job.. they think abt dreams.. ambitions.. aspirations..i mean its not wrong to have all the abv but then again.. we shd also b realistic..
many think that they don mind getting a little bit of pay but is happy with their job..
prob is how many ppl in this world is able to do that unless ur family or bf or hubby is F***ING loaded.. else i seriously don think the person will feel happy in the job..
there r also those who wants to follow their dreams.. but guess they don realise that somethimes dreams will forever remain as dreams..
in this case.. this little girl breaks down easily at the most minor thing like she don even dare stand up for herself when she paid for a damage jewellery.. ok maybe some will feel that i feel this way cos i'm always so bitchy..
but jus think with a personality like this i don think she can survive the demanding aspects in the retail/ service line which she hopes to work in cos she likes the feeling of giving gd service n making it a pleasant day for the customers.. but guess she don have the exp. of been screamed at 24/7 till u r on the verge of breakdown.. for someone so tough like me there r also times when i freak out..
i mean i'm a very realistic person.. so is the world.. as the saying goes $$ makes the world turn.. $$ is not a need.. its a MUST!!i had wanted to offer some kind n concern advice but guess like deardear said..
my kind thoughts may not always sound kind to others.. i can't control how ppl think.. so if thats how they feel then let them b.. don waste my time trying to help ppl who don listen..
anyway, below is the whole unexpected commotion on my kind intentions...
me: the world is not a bed of roses.. no exp can b taught n if u can't take the first step urself.. how can u survive the working world?me: n worst still in the retail or service line.. how would u feel having unreasonable customers screaming at u even when u have serve them well n smiling all along?me: sometimes.. u jus have to b independent.. ur young.. keep an open mind.. ambitions n interests does not equal to jobgirl to me: no exp. can b taught bt u can learn frm exp of others.. wad they've done, u can improve n do bttr.. n i AM takin e 1st step, hav sent out resumes, evn read interview bks juz 2 prep myself.. is tt notgirl to me: call takin e 1st step? IF i am in e service line, so i do u'stand e fact tt customers alwas right, if they're unreasonable so b it, im still obliged to carry a smile n serve them.. it's a job tt igirl to me: agree too whn i applied, n i intend 2 stick 2 it.. dun doubt my determination.. i m learnin 2b independent.. n yes, i've realize tt ambitions n interests does not equal 2 job.. onli money tt servegirl to me: food on e table equals to job.. yes i understand tt now aftr much hurtful incidents.. thanks thou for e enlightenment n comments..girl's bf: Give constructive n supportive advise is btr than destructive 1s. Tis is her 1st time find a job, let her decide n go 4 wat she wants ye.. She is mature 2 decide n chose.. Bxxgirl to bf: thnx dear.. 4 understanding..girl to fren2: u said exactly wad i wana say.. i wana depend on others 2, bt sumtimes i cant seem 2 find any i can lean on.. no, u're not psycho-ing mi, bt tt's exactly how i feel!! i want a job tt
girl to fren2 : i can do.. im happie abt.. nt a job tt i cant do, i noe im uncapable of it.. i wana b happie.. i dun nid exp. luxruies 2b happie.. juz a simple life i can b juz as happie.. thnx! =) u're realli a great frenfren3: so do i oso gives advise to u too =) agree wif ur bf cos it's always u who r the one to decide on wad u wan.. do wadeva tt makes u happy (e.g be like a monkey) haha!! j/k..fren 3 to me: wad u said here is juz ur views regarding tis job issue... diff ppl haf diff views, tinkings n perspectives=) of cos sme wld wan more $$.. sme wld rather gif up on $$ n choose 2b happy..fren 3: we gotta b independent but we do hafta b dependant on ppl u trust smetimes... whn u r tired, whn u feel weak.. hope wadeva path u choose makes u happy =Dfren 3: i feel (not to psycho u to tink like me) tt a lifeless job which can bring me food on table is sianz lah cos i'l spend a boring life away rather thn a job i like even thou less bttr food, i'm stil ^_^fren 1: i wasn't supposed to read the post bout being not ambitious, but i did anyway. and i agree very much with you. i think of course, we still need to be practical. but if we can still manage all rightfren 1: we should do what we really want. what's the use of earning big bucks or high statuses if you don't enjoy it right? *hugs*till this pt.. i don think i need to elaborate more on youngsters nowadays..
from the whole issue.. my conclusion..
this girl is a bit unrealistic.. too idealist.. has a bf who pampers her n not knowing that wat he does is causing her more harm then good.. heck it that he called me a BXXXX.. but then again i don blamed them n of cos her frens for the whole outburst.. cos they r indeed still young n the replies jus express they immaturity *shrugs* 
