Marriagewas browsing thru the internet n blog hopping n i can across a blog of an aquaintance n i really don understand how he could live his life that way..
His a man married with a son n both him n his wife enjoys the night life.. they take turns to stay at hm to look after their son while the other party goes clubbing.. i mean there is nothing wrong with this arrangement but if both party doesn't really cares abt wat each party does when they go clubbing then its not healthy..
i mean this guy is writing in his blog abt this girl he knew thru clubbing
*i suppose*he's upset becos the girl is avoiding her.. he drowns himself to forget.. he write his feelings for her..
but this "her" is not his wife.. i wonder if his wife actually knows or if she actually cares wat he does outside.. it seems that they know of each others life but jus leave it as that..
i mean is that wat marriage is all abt?i don understand why ppl can be like that.. moreover they have a son..
i mean both of them r quite young.. ard 30? i know its a bit of a tie down but if u r not prepared for that kinda life why commit in the first place?
He loves his son alot but i dunno abt the wife.. apparently his son is also very attached to him which keeps me wondering if he got married so that he have a son n did the wife married him so that she have someone to support her.. i dunno.. i really dunno
*confused*yst was chatting with my colleague who is getting married this May.. while chatting this attachment in my co. joined in n ask how long i have been with my bf n my colleague reply straight
VERY long..
but how long is long?how short is short?how long to date before marriage?how to know if the person is sincere..i mean i have seen ppl dating for less then a yr n yes.. they live happily ever after.. but how do u know he or she is the ONE?? but then again dating for 5yrs doesn't mean that u shd get married either..
in this case then why do ppl date?for sex?for $$?for fun??for company??or jus becos other ppl gpt bf/gf so u have to have one?don ppl date with the idea of getting married with the person n live happily everafter?maybe i'm more "lao tu"..maybe i'm more independent..maybe i'm a "da nu ren"..thats why i cherish every r/s n looks n commits like it will end with marriage..thats why i always save for rainy days... thats why i never need to be dependent on a man for $$ *but i don stop them on spending on me*thats why i don like MCPs..thats why i don like to be dictate by man..i really dunno..
i'm confused..
i'm in a dilemma..
i'm speechless..
wat is the meaning of a marriage?wat is the meaning of a r/s?*deep thoughts* 
